Just CUT LOOSE


                A girl falls in love with a guy. The guy suddenly falls in love with the girl after some time however; the girl fell in love with someone else. A typical love story but spices up in every bit.

                He was the “almost perfect boyfriend” and she was no good compared to him. For almost three years, the girl improved, from her perspective of course, head to toe; she wanted to be someone in the eyes of the guy. For every smile that she treasures a lot, her heart beats with too much gladness. She never expected to be friends with the guy. The guy sends her messages whenever he has questions about anything related to school but that doesn’t make her any smarter than the guy. In that way they have their small talk. The guy suddenly talks to the girl whenever he likes. The girl on the other hand talks to the guy normally, disguising her real feelings toward him. Maybe, the guy really thinks that they are just friends and since the start, he has never felt anything special for the girl even if he almost meant the world for the girl.

                There was this guy2 who has feelings for the girl but hesitant about it. He suddenly expresses his feelings for the girl, gave her gifts last Christmas and their other friends tease them all the time. The girl don’t necessarily like the guy2 but she thinks he is a good person and maybe a good type of boyfriend but her thoughts were always focused on the guy she adores so much.

                The girl doesn’t know anything about love after having a very unforgettable past with her first love nor should it better be called infatuation. She doesn’t really like having a relationship for she believes; it would just be a nuisance to her. But what if this time, the right one comes or her ideal boyfriend or her suitor? She had both good and bad times with them but, I guess the girl could not bear everything going on in  her life plus worries in love life. She wonders if she would tell her feelings to the one she adores because if something is not spoken, it would be meaningless and will remain only in the mind. In the end, she never tried. 

                Almost a year after that, the girl decides to just cut loose and start anew. As they say, we learn from what hurts us as much as loves us. The right person would come at the right place and right time. You don’t need to wait, just go on with your life.  Remember: "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."

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